they showed a clip of jason kissing deanna. however, it COULD have been from last season. a little unsettling though.
melissa or deanna. BETTER be melissa!
melissa or deanna. BETTER be melissa!
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Posts: 378 (03/02/09 11:55 AM) Momma JO |
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Posts: 81 (03/02/09 8:19 PM) |
I heard that he picks Melissa and that they WERE engaged....but he was talking to Molly the entire time and so now at the taping, he ENDS his engagement to
Melissa and is now with Molly.
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Posts: 13619 (03/02/09 10:26 PM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
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Posts: 3198 (03/03/09 9:22 AM) Assistant to da Boss |
ali, you kill me. i think it still seemed like she was asking jason for a chance. but i have to agree that it seemed like she was trying to help. i think he
put the idea of "playing it safe" in his head with melissa and that's why he didn't pick molly. however, we did see what an ass he was on the
show last night. don't know if i can stomach a second after the rose show.
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Posts: 82 (03/03/09 10:28 AM) |
Ok, so I know that everybody is hating Jason right now and thinks that he is an ass or whatever, but I don't see anything wrong with what he did. Yes, he
did do all this on television but that is part of the of the show. I definitely think that he was leaning towards Molly but Deanna's advice influenced him
to play it safe with Melissa. As for why Molly would give him a second chance after what he did, I don't understand why she wouldn't. She had genuine
feelings for the man and loved him. Yes, he picked a different girl over her at the end of a show when he was pressured to make a decision. That is real life.
I have a friend who dated a guy and told me "I met the man I am going to marry". A month later he broke up with her because he saw an ex, still had
feelings for his ex and needed to try or else he would always wonder what if. My friend told this guy (who by the way is now her husband) that he was making a
terrible mistake, that he was going to get hurt again and that this ex would break his heart. He told her that she was wrong and she said that she hoped he was
right because he was an amazing guy, didn't want to see him get hurt again and that all she wanted was for him to be happy. (Pretty much exactly what Molly
said to Jason) Sure enough, 4 months later, the ex broke his heart and my friend got her second chance. Now they are married and couldn't be happier. My
friend knew all along that this was the man she was going to marry. He just needed time to grow up and figure out what he wanted and she didn't want him to
live his life with "what-ifs". Yes Jason had been hurt before and then he goes and breaks Melissa's heart, but isn't it better that he do
what feels right than stay with Melissa for the wrong reasons because eventually it probably would have led to infidelity or a divorce or whatever. Just
because Jason had his heart broken doesn't mean that he is perfect. And he obviously did not want to have to break someone's heart but atleast he was
honest. I don't know what more people expect. This is real life stuff, it happens everyday in this world to people you probably know - his was just
spotlighted on T.V. and he was made to look like an ass. But I don't understand how anyone can fault him for a decision that he made.
::. Jeneka. .::
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Posts: 83 (03/03/09 10:41 AM) |
Guys do not do well when they have two women in front of them that they are interested in. Eventually you have to choose one over the other but that
doesn't mean that you pick the right one. Jason fell in love with both of these women. I can honestly say I would never want to be in that position. I
think it would be hard to choose between two people you love and hope you make the right decision.
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Posts: 380 (03/03/09 10:41 AM) Momma JO |
jentay, that's hilarious! my mom called me last night all in a tissy and couldn't believe jason. i told her that he was swayed by deanna's talk.
because in this case, melissa was the jason and molly was the jesse. i have to say, i hope jason is ready for a lifetime of obnoxious nodding. haha. i'm
really glad melissa spoke her mind. good for her.
jentay, i'm glad it worked out for your friends.  what are their names? i know a couple that had something very similar happen to them and they're
happy now, too.
~Jovanna
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Posts: 84 (03/03/09 10:54 AM) |
That is funny! I totally understand why everyone is upset but you really just have to look at the big picture. I was cheering for Melissa or Jillian the entire
time. I couldn't stand Molly until that final rose day when she had that conversation with Jason and I said to myself "He did make the wrong choice.
Molly is the one. I can tell." I totally agree with what you said "Melissa was the Jason and Molly was the Jesse" and Deanna came in and
influenced his decision. I cannot stand Molly's voice and the way she talks. She totally reminds me of someone but I can think of who.
My friends names are Kenzie and Shawn. They are PERFECT together! One of the happiest couples I know. That is so crazy that you know a couple that had a similar situation. What were their names? ::. Jeneka. .:: |
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Posts: 381 (03/03/09 11:46 AM) Momma JO |
i agree with what ali said...at least the good thing about him breaking up with melissa on tv was that she was able to speak her mind. knock him down a few.
my friends' names are karrie and josh. i thought i'd ask b/c knowing our similarities, they might be the same people. haha.
~Jovanna
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Posts: 13621 (03/03/09 11:49 AM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
I was all geared up to come on here and talk about how I don't get why everybody is so pissed at Jason, and how he had to do what was right for him, and
that Deanna's talk inadvertantly made him make the wrong decision because he was so focussed on making the "right" choice (and wtf is
"leading your heart" anyway? Deanna, you're a fucking moron), only to find that Jeneka beat me to it.
Seriously, Jeneka, you need to get on Facebook, because we were having discussions on there last night about this stuff too. I just think that the Bachelor sets these guys up for failure. I mean, how can you ever just be happy and not second-guess your choice? At the first sign of trouble, you're immediately going to start thinking you chose the wrong person (like Jason did). Whether or not you did doesn't even matter. The point is, when you're committing to somebody for life, you need to be in it with an attitude that you are going to fight and work through the rough spots. When you've got another possible wife waiting in the wings, how could you ever be geared up for that kind of a fight? It sucks. I was a big fan of Molly early on. Then I got a little annoyed with her and went to Team Jillian. But I popped back to Team Molly once Jill was off the show. I've never liked Melissa. She always seemed very fake to me.
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Posts: 1737 (03/03/09 11:57 AM) Journalist Extraordinare |
Agreed, Jeneka.
Sure, it's crappy that Melissa got dumped on national television. But that's part of the show. We just watched how many other women get dumped before last night. The only difference was that Melissa had a ring on her finger --- that doesn't mean her feelings for Jason were any stronger than any of the other women who had been dumped. I didn't like Melissa at first, but they really seemed to develop a connection or chemistry as the season went on. I wasn't a huge fan of Molly until last night. Then, all of a sudden, I didn't know who I wanted him to pick. I don't know if they'll last either (they can't all be Trista and Ryan!), but Molly seems to be a better choice for him. And, Ali, I agree -- what is that "leading your heart" crap? I've never heard of that.
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Posts: 382 (03/03/09 1:12 PM) Momma JO |
i understood the leading your heart thing. deanna "followed her heart" and when all the excitement died down, there was nothing left. i've seen
that happen PLENTY of times with friends of mine. then they are left doing every thing in their power to force the relationship to work. i just think jason was
conflicted by deanna. she never should have come back!
i'm still praying he picks jillian. haha. i wouldn't be shocked at this point. melissa will find someone in no time. i still don't think the molly thing will last. EVERY time he talks about her, he mentions the eyes. we get it! is there anything else to her? and yes, jeneka...get a facebook!
~Jovanna
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Posts: 13623 (03/03/09 1:30 PM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
There is no such thing as "leading" your heart. If you "lead" your heart, then that means you're not making honest decisions, because
you're trying to force an outcome.
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Posts: 1738 (03/03/09 1:33 PM) Journalist Extraordinare |
I think there's a HUGE difference between following your heart and getting caught up in the excitement.
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Posts: 13625 (03/03/09 1:34 PM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
I agree with you, Micah. I think following your heart is making a genuine decision, not following the "fun" option.
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Posts: 85 (03/03/09 5:12 PM) |
I am surprised that it wasn't the same couple as well Jovanna! There are so many similarities!
I totally agree with the whole getting caught up in the excitement of it too! Any new relationship is fun and exciting in the beginning, but that is eventually going to fade. It does with everybody. The key is to find a person that you can live "REAL LIFE" with. The T.V. show definitely doesn't allow them to experience "REAL LIFE" together. I also agree with the whole "eye" thing. Did you also notice how he kept telling Molly "that he was falling in love with her" and "he could only see himself continuing to fall more in love with her everyday" but he never actually said "I love you"? It seems a little more like an infatuation than love. I am interested to see what we will find out tonight. AND, I have my Facebook all set up, I just have to figure out how to use it. Can people find me or do I have to find people? I am friends with my sister. That is the only friend I have right now. I need HELP!!!!!!!! ::. Jeneka. .:: |
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Posts: 13628 (03/03/09 6:17 PM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
You found me, Jeneka! I sent friend suggestions to Jovanna, Micah, Jill and Jen. You can find others in my friends.
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Posts: 86 (03/03/09 9:11 PM) |
Thanks Ali! I was able to find a few of my close friends and my sisters-in-law! I am going to have to spend some time putting pictures up and what not.
I can't believe we have to wait until 10 tonight for The Bachelor. I am so ANXIOUS to find out what's going on now! ::. Jeneka. .:: |
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Posts: 13636 (03/03/09 9:55 PM) I'm the boss, bitches. |
Only 9pm my time, but I agree. They're really building up the suspense for what I imagine will amount to nothing. We shall see, though.
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Posts: 87 (03/03/09 10:06 PM) |
Did anybody read this
http://tvwatch.people.com/2009/03/03/jason-im-not-proud-of-what-i-had-to-do/ ::. Jeneka. .:: |
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