I had fibroids. Long story. Lots of bleeding, also. Not fun.
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Jeweldarlene |
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I also love and have all the seasons of Alias. I am glad to hear that Jennifer Garner and her baby are doing so well, and that they all seem to be happy.
Wonderful.
I had fibroids. Long story. Lots of bleeding, also. Not fun. ![]() "The watch is a lot easier to get off and on than a wedding ring." John Mayer, In Style Magazine, Aug. 2006. |
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Nessa Borealis |
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TT, I'll admit it, I wanna breastfeed again. I would have made a fantastic wet nurse in my day....
Love soon, Nessa http://homeness.blogspot.com |
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mklovesdanger |
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I am in school but I can get the free birth control from Planned Parenthood, and it's the same stuff that I can get at school. Student Health is super busy
and the Planned Parenthood I go to is usually much quicker.
I am going back to the doctor in a couple weeks (bitch went on vacation, HOW COULD SHE LEAVE ME???????) because a few days ago, I had another pain episode. It sucks, seriously, there is nothing I can do other than pop a Vicodin, lie in bed and want to die. On top of everything else going on with me these days, I really just need to get this under control. My doctor thinks that most of the pain is associated with the cysts leaking as opposed to rupturing, which is why it happens often, but is only incapacitating for a couple hours. Pain from ruptures last hours and usually send me to the emergency room. FUN!!
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alibubbalicious |
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That sounds seriously miserable.
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laney895 |
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My friend Lisa actually lost about 20 lbs. during her pregnancy. Her midwife guided this as hopes for an easier delivery. It worked for Lisa, although
(unrelated) her misery came post-delivery. Lots of trouble breastfeeding little Chloe.
- Micah
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RebeccaBird |
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Mama Nessa. I can see it.
Mer I'm soo sorry about your pain. That is just miserable. If you were closer to LA I'd refer you to my husband's Aunt Hannah. She is a PHENOMENAL gyno in Thousand Oaks. She could totally help you. |
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mklovesdanger |
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If she could actually FIX me I'd be down to go. I love my doc now, there's just not a whole lot of options right now.
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alibubbalicious |
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Mer, did you feel the earthquake???
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mklovesdanger |
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I didn't, I was at work, but my boss felt it. It was centered a few hours north, so we didn't feel it as much.
I saw on the news that this is supposed to be a pre-shock and we are going to get hit by a huge one shortly. Lovely thought.
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alibubbalicious |
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Ooooo....scary!!!
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RebeccaBird |
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Yikes!
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jentay |
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Alright, so I have a story that I wanted to share because I am curious to see what other people think about this. I have a really good guy friend who called me
last week to ask me about pregnancy. Long story short, he said that this girl he had been dating for a month was pregnant and claiming it was his but he
didn't think it was. So, he called to ask me about dates and such - basically how the whole pregnancy thing goes. He was asking me if a doctor would be
able to tell how far along she was. Well anyway, he told the girl that he wanted them to go see a Dr. for an appointment. Turns out, the baby wasn't his
because she was too far along. I guess the whole time she knew that the baby was her ex's but she had met my friend in the mean time and REALLY liked him
and didn't want her ex to be the father of her baby, so she was trying to pawn the child off as my friend's.
So, my beef is that there are some really scandalous women out there. I can't believe it! Well actually I can but wow! And, when it comes to children, men really have no way of knowing for sure what-so-ever. I cannot believe that somebody would try to make somebody believe that a child is theirs when it really wasn't. OR, that somebody would try to keep a child from knowing who their real father is. Yes, I know there are P.O.S. men out there who get a girl pregnant and then leave her, and the poor girl is left to raise the child on her own. But what about all the men out there, who may have kids they don't even know or know about, because they get involved with scandalous women like this. I think that is the absolute worst thing that you can do to anybody! Why would you selfishly decide whether or not the man and the child deserve to know each other. He is the father of that baby and without him the child would not even exist. It's kind of like women having the choice of abortion. It's really sad that a woman can decide to have an abortion (because it's her body) and the father of the child has absolutely no say in it. As women, we know if we have a child out there and we usually know who the father of that child is. I can't imagine being a man and having a child out there (a small piece of you) and not even getting to know them or be a part of their life. It breaks my heart.
Ok! Sorry for the long rant. I hope that I didn't start some heated discussion but I was just amazed at this story and it got me thinking about all the good, innocent men who get involved with women like this and then have children out there they don't even know about. And, I am curious to see what other women think about this. Maybe I just live a sheltered life, but it still amazes me that stuff like this goes on in our world and that people still don't know the difference between right and wrong, being honest and living a lie. ::. Jeneka. .::
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Yes, I know there are P.O.S. men out there who get a girl pregnant and then leave her, and the poor girl is left to raise the child on her own. But what about all the men out there, who may have kids they don't even know or know about, because they get involved with scandalous women like this. I think that is the absolute worst thing that you can do to anybody! Why would you selfishly decide whether or not the man and the child deserve to know each other. He is the father of that baby and without him the child would not even exist. It's kind of like women having the choice of abortion. It's really sad that a woman can decide to have an abortion (because it's her body) and the father of the child has absolutely no say in it. As women, we know if we have a child out there and we usually know who the father of that child is.I've thought about that a lot, Jentay. Seriously...I've had quite a few inner convos about that. I don't know how to justify it all, honestly. I guess you just hope people do the right thing. Unfortunately, there are some who don't. - Micah
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jentay |
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I guess so! And, I would hope that most people WOULD do the right thing. After all, if you didn't want a child with that man, you probably SHOULDN'T
HAVE HAD SEX WITH HIM! If you get pregnant and then say "I don't want him to be the father of my baby", then why were you having sex with him in
the first place. Maybe you should take responsibility for your mistake and not make the guy suffer. Just like when men get a woman pregnant - well if you
didn't want to be a father then you SHOULDN'T HAVE HAD SEX WITH HER! Pregnancy can be a bad enough situation, but stuff like this just makes it worse.
People really need to take responsibility for their actions and GROW UP!
::. Jeneka. .:: |
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laney895 |
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Yeah. I hear all that. It's too bad people don't have to get some sort of license before being allowed to have children.
- Micah
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jentay |
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Well, people have to get a license to wed and we see how well THAT works!
::. Jeneka. .:: |
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laney895 |
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So true....
- Micah
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jentay |
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Well, I made it through the hard part once again - and now I am oh-so-close!!!!
::. Jeneka. .::
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redheadblueeyed |
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wait! i didn't know you were pregnant! i knew you were talking about maybe wanting to have another. i really don't read and keep up with things as much
as i should! congrats! what are you having? names?
~Jovanna
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jentay |
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I didn't announce it at all. I honestly found out I was pregnant about a month after I posted about wanting to try again. And, of course, I got sick, was
out for a good while and haven't been on here in a long time. Me and pregnancy don't mix well for some reason. I also chose not to find out what I was
having - I wanted the surprise! But, we have obviously been thinking of "J" baby names - and I think we are going with Jordan for a boy or girl. If
it's a girl, we are going to spell it Jordynn and if it's a boy we are going to spell it Jorden. But I still don't know for sure. I also like Jade
for a girl and Jensen for a boy. I guess we will just have to wait and see. But thanks for the congrats! Weren't you pregnant a while back? You had your
baby, didn't you?
::. Jeneka. .:: |
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